By Berne Eric
Berne Eric, 2016
Π ΠΊΠ½ΠΈΠ³Π΅ Β«ΠΠ³ΡΡ, Π² ΠΊΠΎΡΠΎΡΡΠ΅ ΠΈΠ³ΡΠ°ΡΡ Π»ΡΠ΄ΠΈΒ» ΠΡΠΈΠΊ ΠΠ΅ΡΠ½ ΡΠ°ΡΡΠΌΠ°ΡΡΠΈΠ²Π°Π΅Ρ ΠΏΡΠΈΡ ΠΎΠ»ΠΎΠ³ΠΈΡΠ΅ΡΠΊΠΈΠ΅ ΠΈΠ³ΡΡ β ΠΏΠΎΠ²ΡΠΎΡΡΡΡΠΈΠ΅ΡΡ ΠΌΠΎΠ΄Π΅Π»ΠΈ ΠΏΠΎΠ²Π΅Π΄Π΅Π½ΠΈΡ, ΠΈΡΠΏΠΎΠ»ΡΠ·ΡΠ΅ΠΌΡΠ΅ Π² ΠΌΠ΅ΠΆΠ»ΠΈΡΠ½ΠΎΡΡΠ½ΡΡ ΠΎΡΠ½ΠΎΡΠ΅Π½ΠΈΡΡ . ΠΡΠΈ ΠΈΠ³ΡΡ, ΡΠ°ΡΡΠΎ Π½Π΅ΠΎΡΠΎΠ·Π½Π°Π²Π°Π΅ΠΌΡΠ΅, ΡΠ»ΡΠΆΠ°Ρ Π΄Π»Ρ ΡΠ΄ΠΎΠ²Π»Π΅ΡΠ²ΠΎΡΠ΅Π½ΠΈΡ ΡΠΊΡΡΡΡΡ ΠΏΠΎΡΡΠ΅Π±Π½ΠΎΡΡΠ΅ΠΉ ΠΈ ΠΈΠ·Π±Π΅Π³Π°Π½ΠΈΡ Π±Π»ΠΈΠ·ΠΎΡΡΠΈ. ΠΠ΅ΡΠ½ Π°Π½Π°Π»ΠΈΠ·ΠΈΡΡΠ΅Ρ ΡΡΡΡΠΊΡΡΡΡ ΡΡΠΈΡ ΠΈΠ³Ρ, Π²ΡΡΠ²Π»ΡΡ ΠΈΡ ΠΌΠΎΡΠΈΠ²Ρ, ΠΏΡΠ°Π²ΠΈΠ»Π° ΠΈ Π²ΠΎΠ·ΠΌΠΎΠΆΠ½ΡΠ΅ ΠΈΡΡ ΠΎΠ΄Ρ.
ΠΠ½ΠΈΠ³Π° ΠΏΡΠ΅Π΄Π»Π°Π³Π°Π΅Ρ ΡΠΈΡΠ°ΡΠ΅Π»Ρ ΠΈΠ½ΡΡΡΡΠΌΠ΅Π½ΡΡ Π΄Π»Ρ ΡΠ°ΡΠΏΠΎΠ·Π½Π°Π²Π°Π½ΠΈΡ ΠΈ Π°Π½Π°Π»ΠΈΠ·Π° ΠΈΠ³Ρ, Π² ΠΊΠΎΡΠΎΡΡΠ΅ ΠΎΠ½ Π²ΠΎΠ²Π»Π΅ΡΠ΅Π½, Π° ΡΠ°ΠΊΠΆΠ΅ ΡΡΡΠ°ΡΠ΅Π³ΠΈΠΈ Π΄Π»Ρ Π²ΡΡ ΠΎΠ΄Π° ΠΈΠ· Π΄Π΅ΡΡΡΡΠΊΡΠΈΠ²Π½ΡΡ ΠΏΠ°ΡΡΠ΅ΡΠ½ΠΎΠ². ΠΠ²ΡΠΎΡ ΠΏΠΎΠΊΠ°Π·ΡΠ²Π°Π΅Ρ, ΠΊΠ°ΠΊ ΠΎΡΠΎΠ·Π½Π°Π½ΠΈΠ΅ ΡΡΠΈΡ ΠΈΠ³Ρ ΠΌΠΎΠΆΠ΅Ρ ΠΏΡΠΈΠ²Π΅ΡΡΠΈ ΠΊ Π±ΠΎΠ»Π΅Π΅ Π·Π΄ΠΎΡΠΎΠ²ΡΠΌ ΠΈ ΠΈΡΠΊΡΠ΅Π½Π½ΠΈΠΌ ΠΎΡΠ½ΠΎΡΠ΅Π½ΠΈΡΠΌ. ΠΠ΅ΡΠΎΠ΄ΠΎΠ»ΠΎΠ³ΠΈΡ ΠΠ΅ΡΠ½Π° Π²ΠΊΠ»ΡΡΠ°Π΅Ρ ΡΡΠ°Π½ΡΠ°ΠΊΡΠΈΠΎΠ½Π½ΡΠΉ Π°Π½Π°Π»ΠΈΠ·, ΠΊΠΎΡΠΎΡΡΠΉ ΠΏΠΎΠΌΠΎΠ³Π°Π΅Ρ ΠΏΠΎΠ½ΡΡΡ, ΠΊΠ°ΠΊ Π»ΡΠ΄ΠΈ Π²Π·Π°ΠΈΠΌΠΎΠ΄Π΅ΠΉΡΡΠ²ΡΡΡ Π΄ΡΡΠ³ Ρ Π΄ΡΡΠ³ΠΎΠΌ Π½Π° ΡΠ°Π·Π½ΡΡ ΡΡΠΎΠ²Π½ΡΡ Π»ΠΈΡΠ½ΠΎΡΡΠΈ (Π ΠΎΠ΄ΠΈΡΠ΅Π»Ρ, ΠΠ·ΡΠΎΡΠ»ΡΠΉ, Π Π΅Π±Π΅Π½ΠΎΠΊ).
ΠΠ½ΠΈΠ³Π° ΠΏΠΎΠΌΠΎΠ³Π°Π΅Ρ ΡΠΈΡΠ°ΡΠ΅Π»ΡΠΌ Π»ΡΡΡΠ΅ ΠΏΠΎΠ½ΠΈΠΌΠ°ΡΡ ΡΠ΅Π±Ρ ΠΈ Π΄ΡΡΠ³ΠΈΡ , ΡΠ»ΡΡΡΠ°ΡΡ ΠΊΠ°ΡΠ΅ΡΡΠ²ΠΎ ΠΎΠ±ΡΠ΅Π½ΠΈΡ ΠΈ ΡΡΡΠΎΠΈΡΡ Π±ΠΎΠ»Π΅Π΅ Π³Π°ΡΠΌΠΎΠ½ΠΈΡΠ½ΡΠ΅ ΠΎΡΠ½ΠΎΡΠ΅Π½ΠΈΡ. ΠΠ½Π° Π±ΡΠ΄Π΅Ρ ΠΏΠΎΠ»Π΅Π·Π½Π° ΠΏΡΠΈΡ ΠΎΠ»ΠΎΠ³Π°ΠΌ, ΠΊΠΎΠ½ΡΡΠ»ΡΡΠ°Π½ΡΠ°ΠΌ, Π° ΡΠ°ΠΊΠΆΠ΅ Π²ΡΠ΅ΠΌ, ΠΊΡΠΎ ΠΈΠ½ΡΠ΅ΡΠ΅ΡΡΠ΅ΡΡΡ ΠΏΡΠΈΡ ΠΎΠ»ΠΎΠ³ΠΈΠ΅ΠΉ ΠΌΠ΅ΠΆΠ»ΠΈΡΠ½ΠΎΡΡΠ½ΡΡ ΠΎΡΠ½ΠΎΡΠ΅Π½ΠΈΠΉ ΠΈ ΡΠ°ΠΌΠΎΡΠ°Π·Π²ΠΈΡΠΈΠ΅ΠΌ.
Berne Eric, 2016
Eric Berne's "Games People Play" explores the psychological games that people engage in during social interactions. These games, often unconscious, are repetitive patterns of behavior used to achieve hidden agendas and avoid genuine intimacy. The book provides a framework for understanding these games, revealing their underlying motives, rules, and potential outcomes.
Berne introduces Transactional Analysis, a method for analyzing interactions to understand the ego states (Parent, Adult, Child) that drive communication. By identifying these ego states, readers can gain insight into their own behavior and the behavior of others, leading to more effective and authentic communication.
This book offers practical tools for recognizing and analyzing the games we play, as well as strategies for breaking free from destructive patterns. It is valuable for anyone seeking to improve their understanding of human behavior, enhance their communication skills, and build healthier relationships. It's a resource for psychologists, counselors, and anyone interested in self-improvement and interpersonal dynamics.